/s4s/ - anime pillow fight

yes! lets focus on treating each other with love and kindness :D

Did not read the read due to
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but none of it is that hard to accomplish, perhaps except "CAN’T GET HIS MONEY TOGETHER" in certain situations
>Your daily blowjob and well done steak master UwU
people pleasers are annoying

>people pleasers are annoying
Assuming he has his money together and is providing for you then cooking and sucking dick are literally your job

a (boi)wife is just a (boi)private prostitute, as the fat jew would say

That being said
>GIVE THE BLOWJOB FOR NOTHING
>GIVE FREE SEX FOR NOTHING
Is this imply that it's impossible to enjoy giving a blowjob or, lmao, having sex?

Like especially if you don't have a transactional relationship
reframing it as a transactional relationship is just denying the value you yourself get from things
if that value doesn't exist then you should critically evaluate it but it's not like that's news, stop doing things you don't want to do

>>61757 (OP) 
yea this is all pretty agreeable i agree with this post

>>61769
rulecuck'd

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I wouldn't want to force change on someone I love or threaten to end the relationship as an ultimatum. I'd talk to them and see if we can work things out. Blowjobs and sex aren't bargaining tools to get what you want but instead ways to show you love and care.

>>61760
>people pleasers are annoying
Well i love people pleasers, they're the only ones I'll allow myself to please as a former people pleaser, although i would probably get mad jealous and leave if i can't get you to focus on me so i can focus on you lol

>Blowjobs and sex are ways to show you love and care
Can they not just be
something you enjoy???
Is that really so crazy a concept?

you deny your prostate it's purpose

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>>61794
they can also be a job i knew a guy once who said he loved giving $20 blowjobs and you know what they say if you do what you love its like you never worked a day in your life or something

>>61794
>Can they not just be something you enjoy???
HRT made my penis useless and I never liked anal sex even before transitioning. I just like the male attention, kissing and making guys cum with just my thighs.

>>61863
>I just like the male attention, kissing and making guys cum with just my thighs.
Okay so you still enjoy sex
it doesn't need to be tied up with weird vague bullshit you can just have sex for the sake of the sex with the sex as a terminal rather than instrumental goal
>I never liked anal sex even before transitioning
right from the horse's mouth
trans girls: 0 femboys: 9999

>>61843
I mean yeeah there's nothing wrong with transactional relationships, they can be perfectly satisfying. Most things are going to exist on a spectrum, less of the time is it going to be as unambiguous as gay hobo blowjobs